Letter to the Editor: Stu Story #3

Much has been written about our friend and team member, Stuart Angus. Knowing that many readers never met Stuart, I thought I would share a short list of facts that may help you get to know him and benefit from his life lessons.

1) Stuart taught me not to judge people too quickly. My initial perception of Stuart 25 years ago was one thing, while the real Stuart was another completely. He was tough but he had a vulnerable side and a heart of gold.

2) We should all strive to be lifelong learners. Stuart had intellectual curiosity and continuously looked to improve as a horseman, customer advocate, Dad, and all-around human being.

3) Don't take yourself too seriously. We are all flawed and it takes a sense of humor to get through life. Stuart always could break the tension with a wry smile and a witty comment.

4) Value your vocation as a parent. All the monetary success in the world will pale in comparison to giving your child the best possible chance to have a good life.

5) Stay open to the possibility that there is something after this life. Stuart was not a religious person, but he drew closer to his God through his battle with cancer. He showed a beautiful vulnerability and openness to what might be on the other side of this life we know.

6) He taught me the value of being generous with your time and energy. He would make time to teach young people. He would also listen whenever someone needed help with problems. Stuart was a generous friend and mentor.

7) Stuart set the bar for work ethic and commitment to his craft as a horseman. He taught me the value of making work fun.

8) Stuart taught me the value of attention to detail. Stuart didn't miss much as a horseman and he put the horse on a pedestal. He wanted them happy, healthy and well-cared for at all times.

9) Stuart taught me the value of healthy conflict. He was a tough “Jersey Bred” and would not shy away from clearing the air. He taught me that while conflict can be uncomfortable, it can also bring growth and improvement to relationships.

10) Stuart taught me not to feel sorry for myself. He got dealt some really bad cards over the last five years. He never complained or felt sorry for himself. He soldiered on and set a truly heroic example for everyone who has to face extreme challenges in this life.

God bless you, Stuart, and thanks for teaching me so much about life.

Editor's note: Stuart Angus, a Senior Thoroughbred Advisor for Taylor Made, passed away Aug. 28 at the age of 60. His friends are encouraging those he touched to submit `Stu stories' to the TDN. Please email suefinley@thetdn.com if you have a story to share.